Girl, He’s Not Complicated… He’s Just Not That Into You

 

Let’s cut through the noise. Sometimes, we overanalyze a man’s behavior because we’re trying to find meaning where there simply isn’t any. We convince ourselves he’s "just confused," "dealing with stuff," or "not ready." But the truth is often far more straightforward—he’s just not that into you.

That might sting, but it’s also liberating. When someone genuinely likes you, it’s obvious. They show up. They communicate. They make an effort. You don’t have to decode text messages, obsess over response times, or settle for crumbs of affection and attention.

You deserve clarity, consistency, and care. If you’re constantly questioning where you stand, then you probably already know the answer. A man who is into you doesn’t keep you in emotional limbo. He doesn’t make you guess. He doesn’t disappear and reappear when it’s convenient.

Stop mistaking mixed signals for mystery. Stop calling inconsistency "complex." He’s not complicated—he’s just not invested. And no amount of waiting, wishing, or working harder will change that.

Choosing yourself means no longer accepting confusion as love. Walk away from the maybes and make room for someone who chooses you with certainty. You’re not asking for too much—you’re just asking the wrong person.

And deep down, you already know that.